One Sided Love

Posted on June 23rd, 2010 by admin in Relationship Advice | 1 Comment »

Do you desperately need the love of your partner?

Do you usually make plans, initiate conversations, buy gifts?

Are you in a bad mood after your date?

Are you constantly concerned about the loss of your partner?

Do you often think that you might say something wrong?

Before each call or message, do you think more about what the other side will think, rather then what you want to say?

Do you often feel hurt or betrayed?

Do you sometimes wonder if you deserve to be treated in a particular way?

Both men and women often tend to be in relationships, in which there are one-sided feelings. In such relationships, in order to fully satisfy a partner, people begin to lose themselves and become addicted to love and their partner.

Their life is reduced to the thoughts and actions that should appeal to their partner.

Almost every person has his own story of when they almost desperately tried to gain the attention and love of their significant other.

Men buy gifts, repair plumbing, and spend Saturday evenings asking her to go out, to which she agrees, of course, only if there is nothing smarter to do.

Women use more old-fashioned approaches. They “sacrifice” themselves in order to pamper the person they love. They betray all feminist freedoms and hard earned human rights, just so he would not leave them. Almost obsessively, and at any price, they try to keep this man at their side.

In both cases, shame, guilt, and a loss of feeling for what is “normal” are present every day. When their partner doesn’t like them, they change themselves in order to be what they think their partner will like.

Every person who descends to this level loses their self-esteem and confidence. Often these people completely surrender themselves and their lives in order to convince the other side of their suitability and value.

However, this is not love. Love does not require sacrifice or loss of self.

Read the questions at the beginning of this text once more. If you recognize yourself in them, it is time to react.

Your partner will not fall in love with you because of the sacrifices you make. They will fall in love with you because of who you are. If you simply pretend to be something that they want you to be, there is nothing to fall in love with.

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